Category / Pervert

Not sure how to write this post. It’s hard.

It was a beautiful day today. I woke up early to go for my quarterly check-up and blood test on Hyperthyroidism. After visiting the doc I rushed home to nasi lemak breakfast, put on my makeup, dress and drove to Mid Valley for Lancôme Virtuôse Drama Workshop.

I arrived just before registration time; 10.30am. I parked at Zone G Level 1 which is the exit floor. I got in to the shopping complex only realize the event is at Ground Floor. Escalator is quite far away. Maybe I’ll take the stairs, I think to myself. So I did.

I was in 4-inch heels. So I walk down slowly. I didn’t realize when this guy is behind me as I was concentrating so hard not to fell down the stairs. Normally I’d look back to see. This time I said to myself it’s OK. I reached the door and I pushed the door open. The door is heavy. As I was going pass the heavy door, I can hear that the one behind me rushed down quickly. I thought he is in a hurry. The next thing I know he stuck his hand in between my leg below my butt and grabbed me! I yelled at him. I even chased him and yelled “fucker”. He stopped and peeped at me just before that. He didn’t say anything or laugh which is normally what pervert or molester would do to mock their victim back.

I walked out to South Void and I stopped in the middle. I couldn’t walk over to Lancome booth. I felt lost. I felt vulnerable. I didn’t know what to do. I didn’t know who to talk to. I just stood there feeling lost. Then I took my phone and called one of my close friend; Vincent. He advised me to report to the security counter or lodge a police report downstairs. He said this guy must have been there harassing other people as well. So I did. The security people refuse to do anything. Their reply? “There’s no cases like this before”. That is why they refuse to believe this is happening at Mid Valley and refuse to take action!

I’m confuse. Should I be thankful or not be thankful? I’m thankful I was only grabbed and not rob. At this point of time I could only be thankful that my dress material is thick, I wear a thick safety pants as well and I wore a panty liner today. So he couldn’t feel anything but my butt. Mind you he stuck his hand IN BETWEEN my legs.

When I think back at what had happened, I get a chill down my spine. I carried my Longchamp LM tote bag today as I brought my E-P3 out to Lancome event. What if it’s robbery? I could have lost in the battle as I was hand carrying the bag. I’m thankful I still have everything with me. It was such a close encounter.

I can’t help but to think of those girls that hand carry their LVs or Guccis around. I think this is a bait for robbers to attack. Now I’m scared to carry my Longchamp in the future. I might sell this off. I don’t know. Till now I’m still feeling blur, hopeless and vulnerable. My friend was laughing at me at what had happened. I don’t think so this is a laughing matter. You’d never know what is it like until you gone through it. That is my advice. You may laugh but you’d get it soon.